We're taught that asking for help is a sign of weakness. That we can't need other people. That the way to do it is to figure it out on our own.
And this works, at least to a degree, when life is going as we planned. When things are going smoothly and predictably we can manage on our own.
But, what happens when life throws something unexpected our way? What about the times when something happens and you're not sure you can keep going?
Those are the times when we can more clearly realize the ways our culture ahs it wrong. Those are the times when we can see our need our need for other people in our lives.
Yes, in those times we need God and we need to depend on Him completely. Yes, in those times we can't get through them without God.
But, God has designed us to need people. Often the way God helps us get through those times is by using the people around us to be His hands and feet in our lives - to show us His love.
Hebrews 10:24-25 says,
" And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deed, not giving up meeting together as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another - and all the more as you see the Day approaching."We need to have people around us who can encourage us, love us, buid us up walk with us through life. We were made to need this. It is God's plan.
I've been reminded of the importance of this in the last couple months. Life threw some unexpected things my way and quickly became clear I wasn't going to get through it all on my own - or even just me and God. I needed to allow the community God had placed around me to walk through it with me - to encourage me and love me and help me keep on going when I couldn't on my own. God was choosing to use them to get me through this time.
As I've reflected on this, I've been able to see a beautiful picture of how God intends for His people to live, of how God created us to care for one another. A picture that is so different than the one our culture tells us we should live by.